Friday, March 14, 2008

Friday Afternoon

Molly's condition is about the same as yesterday, but I got the chance to speak with the doctors at length today. Basically, her legs are at great risk right now. They are walking such a fine line between keeping her overall health safe and keeping her legs safe. The doctor indicated that because of the great progress earlier in the week that we have the luxury to put her organs and overall health at risk by giving her more fluids, keeping her off medications to constrict her blood vessels, etc, to keep the blood flowing to her legs. The fine line they are walking is that as the fluid builds up in her system, it makes it harder for her lungs to function and exchange oxygen, and not constricting her blood vessels let her blodd pressure to fall and so on and so on. The bottom line is this, they can allow her to get "sicker" to give as much chance of saving her legs for only so long, at some point she will get "sick" enough that they will have to go the other way and put her legs at risk. They will be doing more debreedment surgery tomorrow (saturday) morning and have already said that they will have to remove more muscle in her calfs that has died. Regardless of how much they keep focusing on saving her legs and the blood flow to them, if too much muscle is removed she will loose function of her lower legs. Right now we need prayers focused on saving her legs! As I mentioned earlier in this post, we have the luxury to let her get "sicker" but only to a point. But this means that she is still on the vent, the dialysis, and is sedated so she is back to being unresponsive for the most part. I know this feels like a step backwards, but without the amazing progress our prayers afforded her ealier in the week, the doctors would not be able to do what they are doing now for her legs. Tomorrow the surgeon will debreed her legs again and have some other disciplines in the OR with him to be an extra set of eyes to look for all options. Be praying for the doctors during the surgery, and be praying for Molly's legs that the muscles, tissue and skin begin to regain viability and can be salvaged and saved this to include her entire legs, feet, and toes, left and right side. Also, keep her lungs, liver, kidneys, and skin all over to continue to be abl to take the necessary "hits" to keep her legs healthy. And that the Doctors will make the right decisions with her overall well being and health. Keep the prayer coming! God Bless!

9 comments:

Teresa said...

Dear Molly and Jamey -
Just got back from the Friday night fish fry at church. Were your ears burning Molly? - many people were there asking about you... Mary Ann Fickenwirth and Larry, Gretchen and Gary, several ministers from other churches were there - and knew because you are on all of their prayer chains - people I didn't even know - wanted to know how you were doing! Everyone wants to know if they can do anything for you - the answer is always - pray for her!!!!
You are in my thoughts -both of you - and Jamey don't forget - there are many people here - willing to help -all you need to do is ask!!!
I wish you a peacful - pain free night - You'll be in my thoughts.
Love, Teresa

Jodi Besecker said...
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Jodi Besecker said...

Jamey, Thank you so much for posting Molly's condition each day. It really means alot to all of us. I think of Molly and you every day. We will continue to pray and be there for each of you.

Jimmy also sends his love to you Molly. He continues to ask about you each day.

Take care and May God bless you.

Jodi Besecker

Anonymous said...

Dear Molly and Jamey

My thoughts are with you both. Keep us all posted on her progress I know the focus is on Molly but Jamey do not forget about your health you have to healthy and strong for Molly.

Take care and God Bless.
Angela Fogt

zachyb24 said...

Dear sweet Molly,
We will be in much prayer in the morning as you go through this painful leg surgery. I just pray right now that God puts His hands on your legs and the Hands of the dr's that they will do what is needed to make your legs and the rest of your body get but to where it should be for complete healing.
You are one strong lady so just hang in there. Know that there are so many people PRAYING...

Jamey, hang in there. We don't always understand the things we go through but at the end of the tunnel GOD has the answers don't GIVE UP ON HIM!!!!!!!

Love,
Michelle and Family

Maggie C. said...

Dear Molly and Jamey,

I am praying each day and night for God's healing on your body. I know you are anxious for answers, but you are being very patient with what you have been given so far. I want you to know that this blog is amazing to be able to read each day and know what's going on with you both. It's the next best thing to being there. I love you Molly, and know you are being thought of DAILY !! Jamey,,,,,keep up the amazing job as her husband. You also need rest and care !!
Sincerely,
Maggie Copeland

Sandy said...

Dear Molly,
Wow I just know that you would be so blown away by the amount of people that are taking your cause up with God in prayer. It amazes me the sheer numbers and depth of concern, proving only what a special person you truly are!! I sure hope you can feel all the love and concern that is being sent your way. Just keep getting stronger and keep healing all the way back to a full recovery. We all love you.
Jamey,
Look after yourself and rest as much as you can, I know that is easy for me to say and hard for you to do, but you must try. It is important. You too are in all our prayers.
Hugs,
Sandy

Fran said...

Molly and Jamey,
Thank you so much for this blog.
You two are in my constant thoughts from the time I wake in the morning until bedtime. Please let us know what you need. We want to help in any way we can.
Jamey, you are the hero of the Nicklin staff room. Everyone is amazed at your ability to record the details of Molly's progress and your strong faith and strength for Molly. Please take care of yourself.
Molly, even the teachers who do not know you, are falling in love with you as MaryJo and I share our Molly stories. The photo of you in Mary's Japanes kimono is on the refrigerator door to keep you in our constant prayers with love.
Love, Fran

Debbie said...

Dear Jamey Molly
You are being prayed for and thought of by so many people.
I have talked to people that do not know you, but know that you are my neice and have asked about you. You have been my cheer leader and now it is time for us to be cheering for you! We still have a date for Broadway Joe's.
Love you both,
Aunt Debbie