Thursday, March 27, 2008

THURSDAY NIGHT

What a long day and a big big day for Molly. She did great, of course I, and I am sure all of you have come to expect nothing less from her. The surgery was quite lengthy, they took her to the OR around 10am this morning and did not get back to the room until around 4pm. With all the surgeons did, it took a long time, and was very tedious work. However, the good news is that is was all less invasive procedures and she bounced back very quickly. During surgery they debreeded some of the dead tissue on her wounds (very little, but what was necessary), graphed her thighs, and removed her index finger and part of her thumb on her left hand. The donor tissue for the graphs came from the outside of her thighs. This will feel like a bad rug burn for several days and will take abou 2 weeks to heal completely. she was quite groggy when she returned from the OR but was in good spirits and had only a little pain that her nurse Jay was able to get and keep under control quickly. Now that she has three different types of wounds that need care for, they each need different things to help them heal. She has her stump care, her new skin grafts, and the donor areas. Each requires different care, such as one must be kept dry, one requires soaking, and one requires some scrubbing. However, the Trauma Burn unit and the amazing team that is there deals with these types of things all the time (unfortunately) so they definately know what they are doing. The surgeons feel good about the procedures done today, but we will know for sure how the grafts will do in a day or two. during this critical time for the grafts to heal, she will need to remain in bed and as still as possible. On another note, she also had dialysis today, which she tolerated very well and the dialysis team was very pleased with the results, especially since she had just got back from a 5 hour surgery. Then, if this all was not enough they had to replace her feeding tube in her nose because it had slipped out of her intestines back into her stomach. they are not able to just push it back down (as I suggested) because it is very rubbery and to flexible. When they put it in place initially it has a stiffer guide wire inside the tube to give it some rigidity. She did great with this as well. Even though she should be able to start eating soon (this is another story I will get to in a minute) they will have to keep feeding her through the tube for quite some time to keep her caloric count up. In fact they are giving her over 3,000 calories a day. Of course, like everything else through this journey, they have to walk a fine line between too much of a good thing to "fix" one thing but cause problems in another area, The high calories cause her blood sugar to rise, so they have to give her insulin, because while she need the calories to provide her body to rebuild tissue and heal, the body does not heal well with elevated blood sugar. Now, with all this, they have new orders to only allow a few ice chips until Tuesday. This is because of her vocal cords not working quite right yet. The vocal cords help to protect us from aspirating (letting stuff other than air into the lungs) which can cause pnemonia, which would be a major set back at this point. The reason for letting her have ice cream, popsicles, pepsi, etc, then stopping it is due to now having a clear picture of what is actually going on with her vocal cords. On Tuesday they will do a swallowing evaluation with the "Cookie" test. which means that they actually give her something to eat "a cookie", but trust me it is not an Oreo, it is packed with chalky stuff that they can see on the special x-ray like screen as she eats and swallows. The results of this test will indicate if she can start eating/drinking or not. Two reason to wait until Tuesday, first is that is the first opening in the schedule, second is that with the fresh skin grafts, they do not want her to move to much and this test requires her to go to another department, get out of bed, sit in a very straight and hard chair, etc. So, Tuesday it is, and she understands, obviously disapointed, but ok with it. The chief residents and the attending physicians, interns, med students, therapists, nurses, and the list goes on and on, are amazed at Molly's progress. while they knew she was going to be ok and would make progress they are a little surprised at how quickly she is making that progress. While they are obviously very pleased as they would be with any patient, the whole unit has become like close family and friends and it is just amazing to watch and hear how much they have come to like and admire Molly. Again no surprise to me or anyone that knows Molly, but she has won them all over. Everyone as they pass by her room, even if they have not had her as a direct patient stops by to say "hi" and see how she is doing. Overall, Molly is doing great. We are both also realistic and understand the incredibly long road ahead of us yet to be traveld, but each day of progress, success, and the wonderful feeling of warmth we both feel from all the thoughts and prayers from each of you makes it easier to face each new day. Thank you all! SPECIFIC PRAYER AREAS
  • Patience to wait until Tuesday for the swallowing eval, and to start getting out of bed again
  • Positive result from Tuesday's swallowing eval so she can start eating/drinking
  • Healing of all wounds and grafts
  • Continued healing of her entire body
  • Quick returned use and function of both hands so she can start doing things for herself (this will be a huge boost to her mental health)
  • Clarity and guidance for Molly & I so we are sure what we are being called to do as a result of this experience
  • Family and friends as they travel to Wolverine country to visit
  • Pray for other trauma and burn patients. Not just at U of M, but all over. We have heard stories from the nurses that so many patients that they care for, including kids, are left in the unit with no visitors for days and even weeks on end. Their spirits are down which makes it harder for them to have a full and quick recovery. Molly and I would like for you to pray for their spirits and for frequent visitors from family and friends, or at least someone who genuinly cares about them.

Pray Hard Daily, it is amazing how powerful prayer is!

God Bless you all,

Love,

Jamey & Molly

12 comments:

zachyb24 said...

Molly and Jamey,

This just keeping looking brighter. Praise God. We are so, thankful of all the hard work that UM has done for Molly. She is doing so well and we are proud of you.
We are sure it was a very long day. We are glad you came through everything so great. God has His hands on you.
We just pray that you will get that voice back and can begin to eat some REAL food.
Keep that pretty smile shining ..
Love you so much,
Michelle, Zach, Dan and Sonja

Fran said...

Molly and Jamey,

It is so good to hear that things are going well after yesterday's procedures. Molly, the years of learning patience with kindergarteners and first graders has made you the champion of Patience. You are an inspiration!!!
All my love,
Fran

Anonymous said...

YOU DONT KNOW ME BUT I HAVE BEEN SO TOUCHED BY YOUR COURAGE & TRUST IN GOD. HE IS DEFINITELY HOLDING YOU DURING ALL THE SURGERYS. BELIEVE IN HIM AND ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. JAMEY YOU ARE DOING A WONDERFUL JOB OF INFORMING US EVERY DAY. WE WERE TOLD THE STORY BY JODI BESECKER. YOU COMES INTO OUR OFFICE ALMOST EVERYDAY. SHE LOVE YOU VERY MUCH TO SHARE YOUR STORY WITH US AND WE ARE GLAD SHE DID. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. REMEMBER HE IS WITH YOU EVERY MOMENT. CHERYL (MERCER COUNTY RECORDERS OFFICE)

Nicki Sommer said...

Molly & Jamey,

I don't know either of you personally, but have been reading your blog daily for the past couple weeks. I know "friends of friends" of yours and have been inspired to continue following your story. I find myself looking forward to your updates. You have such a positive attitude! I pray that I would be given the same strength and faith if I am ever to be tested as you are being tested now. I keep hearing about Molly which is a reminder of all the people who are praying for you & your families. I have shared your blog with others who do not know you personally because I know they too will be inspired by both of you. The more prayers the better! I will continue to follow her progress and you will both be in my thoughts & prayers. You're both very inspiring!

Nicki (Clear) Sommer

Barb said...

Molly and Jamey,

PRAISE GOD! I was introduced to you through our prayer chain at church, The Family of Grace UMC, Piqua. One of your students, Molly, has been in constant prayer and added you to our prayer list - Mariah Nicholas. Her Mom shared your blog address and my family and I have been following your journey and praying - as are many in our church family. We are so happy to hear of your continued progress and inspired by the courage, strength, faith and patience you both have shown. I too have shared your blog address and story requesting prayer and also because I believe in the Power of Prayer. Your story and miraculous recovery speaks loudly about God's power through prayer and Faith in Him. I also believe that your story as shared with the unsaved will inspire them to seek our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. I Praise God for the both of you and continue to pray for healing and strength for Molly.

Your friends in Christ, Glenn and Barb

Unknown said...

Dear Molly and Jamey
This week our youth group has been praying for you and our lesson this week was on "tatooing"Jesus on our hearts and letting Him shine in our lives. And I shared with them how you two are doing that by trusting, trusting, and still trusting Him when that seems like all you can do. Many are being touched for Him through your "tatooing" experience.
Mom came to visit me during spring break while Curt and Matt were in TN fishing. We had a great visit and prayed for you. So now you have another Hoosier praying for you.
Love you Lots!
Nancy DeNise

Anonymous said...

Molly and Jamey--I read almost daily on the blog of Molly's recovery and am so glad that she is doing so well. You both have amazing attitudes considering all that you both have been through. UM sounds like an amazing hospital. The dedication of the doctors and nurses is truly commendable. Take care and I will continue to pray for Molly's recovery.

Cheryl Cassagnol, Phyllis Null's sister

Anonymous said...

You are a little light that can't be hidden under a basket. Christ is shining right through you. Everyone stops in to see you, they may think it's to encourage the spunky patient who is amazing everyone with her progress, but it's really something else, it's God's power that is attracting them. You will surely be a testimony to many, many, people before your journey is done.
Hallelujah!

Anonymous said...

Molly and Jamey,

Good to hear of the progress even though some of it is halting progress. Hopefully you have a window to enjoy the coming of spring. It is, of course, the reminder of the resurrection - the new life that blooms reminds us of the new life we have in Christ if we choose it.

Molly, I saw Krista Stump's new grandbaby's picture. We along with Stumps are trying to plan a little trip up to see you guys if schedules allow.

Use this time to forge a deeper closeness and intimacy in your marriage. I haven't had an experience like yours, but even from a distance it must make you appreciate things and each other more. Jamey you have done a good job of being there for Molly. Keep it up!!

You guys take care!

Gary Cloyd

We still pray daily for you.

Anonymous said...

Molly and Jamey.

Again. Jamey thank you for the daily blog. I know you have got to be exhausted. Your time is much appreciated.

Molly. I am so proud of you. I have a hard time dealing with the fact that you are enduring so much. But, happy to hear that you are doing so well with all of this. I can see your smile and your bright shining eyes. It is funny when you think back on someone you have a mental picture of them in your head and mine is your beautiful smiling face. The prettiest teeth and the sparkle in your eyes. I hope to see that again soon. Me, My Family and My Friends continue to pray for you every day.

Sending you love and light,

Sheri (Bettinger) Bryant

kcoppess said...

Molly and Jamey-

Just wanted to let you know that we continue to pray for you both daily. Ethan wants to tell you "I love you, Mrs. French. I hope you feel better."

We miss you!

Love,

Krista and Ethan Coppess

Kendra Krouskop-Smith said...

Jamey & Molly,

Your continued faith and thoughts for those other than yourselves continues to amaze me. I know God has big plans in store for you both, and He is working powerfully on your behalf right now! Thanks for keeping us posted, Jamey!

Kendra