Monday, March 17, 2008

Monday Morning After MONDO Rounds

Holly Cow! That was amazing watching 30 people from every medical discipline you can imagine putting their heads together, observe, read the chart, ask questions all about Molly and everyone adding their opinion, advice, recommendations, questioning each other. Amazing to watch. Molly said it didn't bother her, but her heart rate did go up while they were all in the room, but she is ok now. The nurses are putting her dressings on right now, so I am updating the blog. Regarding her legs, no decision has been made yet, but three trauma surgeons, burn surgeon, orthopedic surgeon, plastic surgeon, physical therapy, occupational thereapy, all beleive another trip to the OR tomorrow is a good idea to debreed a little more of the dead tissue and use a device that causes the muscles to contract to determine muscle quality, how much is still viable and the function of what is left. After that the BIG decision will probably be made. The surgeons preliminarily told me after the rounds that the muscle and tissue does not look very good, but we will know for sure after tomorrow. A couple of things they said we have to keep in mind is that while there is no infection in the tissue right now, the longer it is open the more opportunity there is for infection to start, this will pretty make the decision as it could start jeopardizing Molly's overall health. Also, even without infection, if the tissue and muscle continues (even at a slow rate) to die, eventually it could effect where the amputation would occur, ie: above knee or below knee. So, while we are daling with trying to save her legs, we are alos dealing with in the long-term what will be best for Molly and provide her the most function and normal activity. Molly did overhear the comments of the surgeons today, so I talked with her about the possible outcomes. She understood and told me that whatever has to be, has to be. I told her again how all this happened and she understood and remembered most of it from me telling her yesterday. I know she is still somewhat medicated, and confused, but I beleive she understands and while a little anxious, is truly ok with everything right now. I told the doc's that from now on all conversations about her care, etc. will need to include her and I together. Outside of her legs, she is still doing AWESOME!!!! Vitals signs are great, breathing great, they will be discontinuing the CVVH (continuous dialysis) later today or tomorrow morning and going back to the regular hemo-dialysis every 2-3 days. This will hopefully get her kidneys to realize their vacation is over. Liver & lungs are still sick, but recovering well. Keep praying for her overall health, specifically her legs. Also, pray for her health care team that they look at every possible option before making a decision and/or forming an opinion. Lastly, pray for Molly & I as we together may have to make some very difficult decisions and the we make those decisions together, with all the information, options and wisdom to make the right decision, and then the peace to live with the decision. God Bless, more later today or tomorrow for sure!

36 comments:

Sandy said...

That's Molly- what a trooper!!! When you get a second can you let us know how her Dad is doing? God love him, he must be so scared for her. And now that she's awake more she'll be worried about how he's faring too, I think about that a lot, she takes such good care of him. You tell her that all of us are pulling for her and that God probably hasn't received so many prayers in so long and that the love we all have for her is totally responsible for that.
Safe trips for you and your folks,
Sandy

Dennis & Margie Null said...

Molly & Jamey - we continue to hold you in our hearts and pray for the best possible outcome for Molly's health. You both continue to inspire us and your love and faith is clearly obvious. Please know we are here for you.
Love,
Dennis, Margie & Aunt Phyllis

Anonymous said...

Molly and Jamey
Great news! We continue to pray for both of you! Tell Molly Heather (from Nicklin) said hi!
Keep up the good work, Molly!
God Bless you both-
Heather Larger

The News said...

Molly & Jamey
Even though we are 2000 miles away you are in are thoughts and in are prayers. God Bless. Jeff & Lori New.

Unknown said...

Just wanted to let all of you know that I have been praying and thinking of everyone!
_\m/ Rosie (Dillon) Fields

Anonymous said...

Jamey and Molly,
We do not know you personally, but we have a child that attends Woodland. We are praying for you and believing for miracles! Your faith and strength are a insiration.
Many prayers,
Steve & Shalissa Donthnier & Family

zachyb24 said...

Molly,
It is awesome that all you are going through it seems like your spirit's are again high. I believe all the prayers are all around you.
We are with you through all this.
WE will be in much prayer for you for tomorrow.
I miss you so much .. I had such wonderful dreams of us talking last night. IT was very peaceful for me..
The cards keep coming in at the school and at home.

I know that GOD is using these Dr's to make the right choices.

All our love,
Michelle, Zach, Dan and Sonja

Anonymous said...

Jamey - thank you so much for keeping us updated and informed and most of all for the specific prayer request. We can see so many prayers that have been answered. I seen you mom and dad in church yesterday and they looked upbeat and positive that only comes from God. He is not only giving Molly strength and healing but He is taking care of all of you. God is so Good and we thank Him
Praying everyday,
Annette Buhrman

Anonymous said...

Jamey - Since the moment i was told of Molly's condition i have been praying for not only her but u as well. I know that God is truly going to his will and nothing less. One of these days she will have one awesome testimony to share with others. Thank you for taking time to share with everyone who knows and loves Molly with your daily updates. May Gods protection be over all of you.
Love and prayers,
Stacy Sykes

Anonymous said...

Sounds like things maybe looking up for you guys! Please have faith and know that we are praying for you and jamey.
The Weaver Family

Anonymous said...

Molly & Jamey,

I can not believe how far you guys have come so far! I know the road ahead is uncertain, but please know how much love and support you will have from all of your friends (and your amazing families) as you travel down these paths. Molly - I know you must be scared, but please hang on to your faith and know how amazing your recovery has been so far. I can not wait to see you again (I am coming back soon) and maybe we can talk this time!

Love,
Debby, Adam, Jordan and Alec

Jim Hill; Karen Hill said...

Jamey:

When our daughter was sick with kidney problems as an infant, it was so diffucult to see her sick in the bed with so little I could do to help. There was a song by Selah that really spoke to me and helped me through, especially when I was feeling alone in the emotional pain of the situation. If you know Jesus, you are never alone. Here is the main verse:

One Thing I Know

Chorus:
If there’s one thing I know,
You are never left alone
‘cause You can always call on Jesus’ name
If there’s one thing I pray,
It’s Jesus helps you find a way
To make a change and listen to Your heart
God will take away your pain
If you choose to let it go
If there’s one thing I know

We continue to lift Molly and you up in prayer.

God Bless,

Jim

Unknown said...

Dear Jamey:

This is Ping Yang from Miamivalley Toastmasters club. I just heard about Molly's situation from Sean Barrett and checked out the blog. keep up the great work and I know you are a fighter and I believe so is Molly. Together, you will win this battle.

God bless you both.

Ping Yang

Kendra Krouskop-Smith said...

Molly & Jamey,

You are most definitely in my prayers. I know that with the Lord's help you and the doctors will make the right decisions, and that He will help you through whatever comes of those decisions. Molly, I only wish I could give you the love and support you gave to me my first year at Nicklin - you will always hold a special place in my heart!
God Bless you both!
Kendra

Anonymous said...

Jamey & Molly,

You go Molly! What progress!! I praise God for all of the answered prayers; and continue to pray for a miracle for your legs. Keep the faith, keep the positive attitude and keep the prayer requests coming. We miss you both!
Julie Monnin

Anonymous said...

Dear Molly and Jamey,

It looks like the Dynamic Duo is ready to face down any challenges. Please know you are supported multiple times a day in prayers sent your way.

Jamey, you really need to have the head job at FEMA! I am blown away by your ability to manage so much, bring together the dream team in medical care, and wrap your mind around so much terminology. I have always known you were a strong leader, but you have never demonstrated your talents more than in the past weeks. I am proud to call you a friend. I have 100% confidence that you and Molly will make the absolute best decisions in these times. I have never seen you do anything but excel in leadership, and this will be no different.

Blessings for strength, hope and perfect health,

Bonnie & Steve

Unknown said...

Jamie and Molly the lord is working in your lives, and he is answering prayers daily. Just think of all the people you have brought to prayer who may not have prayed for a while and now know the wonderful healing power of prayer. Praise God!! Love from Carol Huntington and Family

Anonymous said...

Molly and Jamey,

We're continuing to lift you both up before in prayer every day. We speak and command LIFE to come into all dead tissue, LIFE to every cell, every organ, to every area of your body Molly, in Jesus Name! It is because of what You did on the cross, Lord, that Molly has her complete healing! We receive it for Molly today, and we stand on Your Word and believe You for it! In Jesus Name, AMEN!

We bless you today, with all you have need of. Ephesians 1:3

The Soley and Sproviero Family

Anonymous said...

Molly,

I miss your wonderful smile but know that with patience in your recovery it will be back!

Eileen

Anonymous said...

Jamey,
Please give Molly a big hug and kiss from Aaron and I. We continue to pray that God will guide you both in the decisions that have to be made in the near future.
God bless,
The Gaff's

zachyb24 said...

Molly,
That is cool you are eating I am sure at this time anything taste good. I am so proud of you..
I miss you and Love you..
I can't wait to see you again..
God is so good. He is showing it by what He is doing in your life..
Love,
Michelle Praying every day..

Anonymous said...

Jamey & Molly
I just found out about this a few days ago, but you are in my thoughts and prayers continuously. I praise God for the fact that Jamey has been in the health care settings and can have a good understanding about what is going being said. There is no end to what God can do. Jamey I have known you for a long time and it is so wonderful to see how your faith in God and your devotion to your wife is seeing you through. What an inspiration.

Unknown said...

Hello Jamey and Molly,
I just wanted to let you know that Trent and I are thinking and praying for the both of you. Stay strong Jamey and Molly! May the Lord use these messages to lift you up in spirit, encourage your heart, continue to build your faith, and brighten your day!
God Bless,
Melinda

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Unknown said...

Molly & Jamey-

TJ let me know what was going on a week or so ago & I've been following your blog every since. Keep up the great work, great love & great hope!

Tracy Grilliot

Anonymous said...

Our entire church continues to pray for all of you during this time. Praise God He is answering so many prayers! So much progress and so many blessings can only come from the mighty hand of God! Thanking Him for what is seen, and for what is yet unseen. We know He is moving is a great way in your lives. Praise His holy name!
Living Waters Ministries, Versailles OH

Anonymous said...

Molly and Jamey,
I just found out about this yesterday from Steph Humenay. I have read the blog which by the way is amazing how you keep up with it and everything that is going on. Keep thinking positively. I will keep both of you in my prayers.

Erica Sprenkel

Anonymous said...

Praise the Lord!!! for answered prayer!! The news of Molly's continued healing is such an inspiration to us. We will keep praying and believing for total and complete healing and that the doctor's and you and Molly will be led by the Lord in your decision making.

Jamey, please tell Molly how much she's loved and being prayed for, which I'm sure you are!!

We heard from Trev on Sunday night and were able to tell him a little of what is going on with Molly, so you can add Iraq to your list of people praying for her!! We talked to him by satellite phone, so didn't get to talk long, but he couldn't believe all that has happened and asked me to tell you guys that he's praying for you!!

Thank you again for the daily updates, it helps so much to know specific things to pray for.

Love you guys!

Dane and Kirsten and family

Anonymous said...

Praise the Lord! I am Michelle Coppess's aunt from Michigan and I just want you to know that our church is also praying for Molly. This past Sunday the Lord led me to have them annoint me and stand in the gap for Molly. I just knew that the Lord was going to be touching Molly. After the prayer the Lord gave us the scripture Luke 9:11 which says "He healed those who had a need for healing" and we know that Molly has a great need for healing and we serve a great God. So know that we will continue to lift Molly up to our Father and believe on her behalf until His healing for her is complete.
In the service of the King of Kings
Onda Gibboney

Anonymous said...

Molley and Jamey,

Hi, this is Pastor Josh from K-LOVE and I just wanted to let you that we are praying for both of you in this time. Your friend Michelle has called to let us know how things are going.

May God Bless you both,
Pastor Josh

zachyb24 said...

Dear Molly and Jamey,

You guys just don't know how many lives that are being touched by the blogs and Molly's improvement's. God is using all of this for some reasons that we aren't always sure about but the out comes are GOING TO BE OUT OF THIS WORLD...
Molly, I know I have told you over and over but you are one amazing lady. You are special in so many ways. I miss you in the hallways of school and our morning talks. I don't know if Jamey got the chance to tell you but some of the kids from your class have been coming up too me.. Saying " Michelle would you give a hug to Mrs.French from me".. So, I am sending you A big HUG from your kids..
They are working really hard on their music. You would be proud.
Jamey, Thanks for the wonderful updates. My aunt from Michigan said " They are wonderful and HEART felt".
Love you both,
Michelle

Maggie C. said...

Dear Jamey and Molly,
I noticed one of my posters on my gym door today...and it reminded me of you guys.....It says, "The task ahead of you is never as great as the strength within you." I hope this keeps you strongminded in the days and months ahead !! I continue to pray for you each day, and miss seeing your smiling face when your kids come to gym class. They miss you, but are doing FINE !! Keep your chin up (if the doctors allow you to !!)
Prayfully,
Maggie Copeland

Anonymous said...

Molly, We are praying for you everyday. We were on vacation in Puerto Rico therefore many people there are praying for you also. God has a plan so keep strong.
God bless,
Chip and Mary Ann Caldwell

Anonymous said...

Hi, Jamey.
I just heard about Molly's condition and your blog from Frank Schilder. I am amazed at what you both have come through already, and how far you have come in such a short time. We are praying that God continues to send you both strength and energy needed each day. May you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you both. Love to you and your family. Sue and Tony Dalati, District 61 Toastmasters.

Anonymous said...

Hi Jamey and Molly,

I have been reading the blog ever since my brother told us about it and I have been thinking about you both daily.(and so has the rest of our family) WOW...I talked to Molly both days she signed in the hospital, who would have ever thought. I am so glad you had someone watching over you both and getting you the attention you deserve. I pray for you daily and I know everything is going to continue to get better as it has since you got to U of M! By the way being the Michigan fans that me and Jamie are we love hearing Jamey say thank God for the U of M...LOL. Keep being strong and things will only get better from here! You are in my thoughts and prayers daily! Love you both!

Mindy McGlinch

Scottt Ward said...

Jamey and Molley,

The other Ward family informed us of your health. I have sat at my computer this morning and read your blog's. WOW! Jamey..it's amazing how you can keep the blog updated and do what you are doing. My prayers are with the both of you. God is watching over the both of you and will guide you through this as he as so far.

God Bless,

Scott Ward